Letters to my daughter's future self

A couple years ago I set up a gmail account for my infant daughter and I started sending her emails about lessons I hope she learns, things she does, thoughts or ideas that move me and I hope she will also find moving.  Basically, I'm writing letters to her future self.

I just wrote my 200th email to her!  It was inspired by the chapter in Carl Sagan's Demon Haunted World in which he talks about inspiring and educating children (I'm currently re-reading this book).

I talked about the difficulties she's going to have with regards to finding inspiration in a society where showing wonder and an interest in science and math isn't lauded.  Where women in particular don't seem to receive a lot of encouragement in developing a sense of wonderment with regards to science (not that I have a much of a clue about the challenges that women face).  Where the vast majority of people in her life will probably be almost the antithesis of the curious-investigator-of-the-universe archetype.

I'm not sure at which age I'll give her access to this email account.  I'd like her to read them when she's old enough to understand, but early enough that they can hopefully bring her comfort and help her make good decisions.

I also need to figure out a way for her to get access in the event of my untimely demise…

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  1. I like this idea. I might have to look into a way of doing this.

  2. Great idea! Not sure if you can put something in your will or a safe deposit box for the notification.

  3. That sounds amazing. I started keeping a journal when I was in Grade 9 (over 10 years ago) and I wrote something in every day. Reading some of my past entries is awe inspiring, not because I wrote down profound things but because I'm always surprised by how much I've changed. I'd image, to the same effect, your daughter would probably learn much about you from what you write to her and see how you have changed as you and her grew up together……….

  4. Access post-you is easy: that's what wills are for

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