However, I stumbled into this nice essay by the best selling author Marti Leimbach on the subject which I found well-written (unsurprisingly), moving, and thought-provoking.
The part that first grabbed me given my above-mentioned confusion on the subject:
Nonetheless, this whole notion of “privilege” vexes me. We talk about it as though we can all recognise what it is. I am not always so sure. I can tell one narrative of my life and it seems to describe someone who grew up without privilege, and I can tell another narrative and it seems almost as though my life was one of ease and privilege from the time I was born.

